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Who pays for what?

 

If your budget is limited (as it is for most people), you'll have to decide in advance where you can cut costs and where you can splash out. Remember, an abundance of punch is infinitely preferable to a miserly measure of champagne!

Traditionally, the cost of a wedding was divided between the bridegroom and the bride's father, but these days there are often other yardsticks. The division should be made according to circumstances.

If the bride earns a good salary, she could feel that she would like to make a greater financial contribution; if the bridegroom is well-off, he would, perhaps wish to pay for certain things that would in the past have been paid for by the bride's father. Perhaps you and your fiance' have been saving jointly for some time to pay for your wedding; it could also happen that your in-laws offer to pay for the entire reception. Everyone's situation is different.

The traditional division of expenses is as follows:

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The Bride's Father pays for:

  • The invitations.
  • The entire reception (except the liquor) and the wedding cake.
  • The photographs and the photographer.
  • The flower arrangements in the church and at the reception.
  • The bride's outfit (wedding dress, shoes, headdress, accessories, etc)

The Bride pays for:

  • Her gift to the bridegroom.
  • The bridegroom's ring.
  • Gifts for those who've helped with the wedding preparations.

The Bridegroom pays for:

  • The bride's bouquet, corsages for the mothers, the bridesmaids' and flower girls' bouquets, the buttonholes for the bridegroom, best and and both fathers.
  • All payments connected with the church (usually the organist, minister and hiring of the church).
  • The care hire.
  • His own outfit, or its hiring.
  • Small gifts for the bridesmaids and flower girls, chosen by the bride.
  • Wedding and engagement rings for the bride.
  • The honeymoon (many couples share this expense).
  • His gift to the bride.
  • The liquor for the reception.
  • Hiring of the glasses

The Bridegroom's parents pay for:

  • Their own hotel accommodation, if necessary.
  • Restaurant dinners before the wedding.

 


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